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October 30, 2014 by sereynolds

A Great Leadership Development Strategy: Marathon Training With Your Colleagues

This past week, an editor from the New York Post contacted me to let me know that she was going to run a story on those training for the New York Marathon with their colleagues or bosses. They were interested in how this dynamic might translate to the workplace. As a runner myself, I was happy to lend them some insight.

The truth is that any group activity that involves a specific goal and employs both leadership and teamwork is a great way to form a deeper bond with those you work with – running especially! This is what I told the Post:

 

This deeper relationship is common, says executive coach Joelle Jay, author of “The Inner Edge.” “Their walls come down when people have the time and opportunity to connect on a personal level with running or walking or on a long car ride,” she says.

Jay adds that marathoners’ contagious attitudes can even inspire their non-running colleagues to take up the sport — like vice president Melissa Sgaglione and senior account executive Max Puro did at their company.

It’s also important to note that there should be a way to include those who didn’t participate in the run. Those not running can still participate in other ways, such as cheering at the finish line, handing out water or holding up encouraging signs at different mile markers along the way, or even making team shirts. A post-marathon briefing, where the experience and stories can be shared, can bring other coworkers up to speed and help them feel in the loop and part of the team.

You can read the full article from the New York Post here.

Related: 4 Secrets Top Managers Utilize to Revolutionize Their Team

You can also connect with Joelle on Twitter and Facebook, she’d love to hear from you!

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October 23, 2014 by sereynolds

4 Secrets Top Managers Utilize to Revolutionize Their Team

The following article is one that I wrote that recently appeared int he Fall issue of Management Today Magazine. You can download a digital version here.

 

Managers used to have it easy. They could tell people what to do and expect it to be done. Need a report due Monday morning? Employees will simply have to work all weekend. Need an underperforming employee to shape up? Shake a few fists and demand a better product.

Well, no more. Today’s employees want more than that. They want respect. They want a life.

As an executive coach working with senior leaders in Fortune 500 companies I have seen it many times: managers living in the past, fantasizing that what they say, goes. Today’s managers need to find new ways to relate to their employees that put them in control of their own careers.

Moving from a command-and-control style of management to one that empowers employees can virtually revolutionize a team.

Ask employees what their vision is. For decades, business leaders have been refining the visions of their companies and aligning employees to that vision. Today’s employees question why they should care. After all, what’s in it for them? Managers can tap into the enthusiasm of employees better by asking what their visions are for success. A salesperson may be acceptable at meeting quota, but he will come alive if he connects his quotas to his personal dreams of, say, taking on a leadership role in the company.

When employees understand how what’s best for the company aligns to their personal goals, they work with a sense of purpose, which is far more effective.

Leverage the strengths of each individual. Employees don’t want to be someone they’re not anymore. A job in which they have can’t be themselves can feel like a prison. A vice president I once worked with was so downtrodden due to the CEO’s insistence on a detailed, highly structured style that she almost left the company. This manager’s vivid imagination and creative mind needed to break free. Instead of losing this talented leader, the CEO was able to see the strengths of this VP and give her the latitude to do things her way. She was newly inspired and brought ideas and innovations to the company that dramatically improved its success.

Find out what your employees’ strengths are – how they perform naturally well, and how they prefer to work. Not only will your employees feel happier and build a sense of their personal value, you will get a better work product.

Know what your employees value, and value it too. Believe it or not, your deliverables are not the most important thing in your employees’ lives. Employees have families, hobbies, and service projects they care about. They are invested in making a difference with their lives. If you can connect with employees by asking them what’s important to them, they will tap into the strength of their values and bring a stronger sense of self to work.

Coach, don’t preach. Finally, break the habit of barking orders and telling people what to do. Coach them instead. Ask them what they need to be successful, and pose questions to help them find their own answers. You will find them to be more creative and resourceful when they know they are seen as capable leaders who can be trusted to learn what they need to learn to excel.

 

Ultimately, the way to revolutionize a team is to see the team as made up of individuals, just like you – with dreams and desires, valuable talents they want to use, ideals they care about, and the potential to learn. Managers who treat their workers don’t just have employees; they bring new leaders to life.

 

Related: Tips To Build Your Dream Team

 

You can also connect with Joelle on Twitter and Facebook, she’d love to hear from you!

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: business leadership, joelle jay, joelle k. jay, leadership, management, management today magazine

October 15, 2014 by sereynolds

My Q&A As “Superstar of the Week” On Business Superstar

The following is my interview with Business Superstar, where I am featured as this week’s “Superstar of the Week!” Read on as I speak with Phil about all things leadership, The Inner Edge, and more. You can see the original interview here.

 

Joelle K. Jay, Ph.D., is an executive coach specializing in leadership development. In addition to working with presidents, vice presidents, and C-level executives in Fortune 500 companies, she also authored The Inner Edge: The 10 Practices of Personal Leadership. Dr. Jay spoke with us about the distinctive characteristics that define a leader.

Q: What inspired you to write The Inner Edge? And what were your goals in creating this book?

Joelle Jay: What inspired me to write The Inner Edge was my own experience. There was a time in my life that I found myself becoming successful in my career as defined by external measures, but I wasn’t happy. All I could see was years of dissatisfaction ahead of me.

So I sat myself down, determined to redefine my course in the direction of happiness. I spent a year on this practice, applying a lot of the coaching techniques I applied to others to myself. After a year I didn’t want to go back to feeling unsatisfied, I wanted to honor the steps toward change I had made, so I wrote out the steps, the 10 practices of personal leadership, and The Inner Edge was born.

Q: In your professional opinion, what are the basic characteristics of a great business leader?

Joelle Jay: In addition to some of the more traditional characteristics, like being a visionary, a strategist, and having great people skills, I would add that great business leaders are extremely thoughtful people who are cognizant of who they are reaching and why. They create business structures not only to foster a successful business, but also to make employees happier and more engaged. A great business leader is a master of personal leadership both individually and applied to the whole organization.

Q: Do you believe that business leadership skills can be taught in schools? Or is it a trait that is part of a person’s existence?

Joelle Jay: Certainly there are people who are gifted with natural leadership abilities, who are compelling and visionary and inherently charismatic – the Martin Luther King Jr.’s of the World. But just as people can learn to be compassionate, thoughtful, and hardworking, they can learn to be leaders and practice the skills of leadership.

Q: Do you believe it is possible to create a new business in a rough economy (like the one we have today)?

Joelle Jay: Yes! The evidence is all around us. There are rising, thriving businesses, some of which would even question whether we truly live in a rough economy today. The success of a business isn’t solely dependent upon the market, but the vision of the leader and the capability of the leader to be creative in finding a way to serve their clients, customers, the general public, and employees.

When times are tough, the business landscape might look different, having the mindset that the economy will either make or break your business is a failure from the start. A better mindset would be a commitment to succeeding no matter what the economic outlook.

Q: What advice would you give to those who are eager to be their own boss, but don’t know how to achieve that goal?

Joelle Jay: You can use the 10 practices of personal leadership to figure out how to become your own boss, just like I did! First, learn to see yourself as the leader of your own life, as a leader creating a life for yourself. That small shift in perspective is the first test. Then, get clarity and find your vision for the career in which you are your own boss.

Next, find focus and identify the priorities to need to push to the forefront to make it happen. Then take action, go out and tackle your prioritized action items instead of just dreaming about it. You may be doing this while you’re still a fulltime employee at your current company, so you can take it one practice at a time. There are other practices of personal leadership: maximize your time, see the possibilities.

The next practices include: tapping into your brilliance and personal strengths, learning to truly feel fulfillment, maximizing your time, building your team, continuing to learn and grow, seeing possibility, and finally being able to balance all of it at once. Those are the practices I outline in The Inner Edge, and those are the practices I teach top executives.

 

 

To see the full interview, please visit Business-Superstar.com.

Related: My Leadership Q&A With Brian Null On BusinessInterviews.com

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September 30, 2014 by sereynolds

My Leadership Q&A With Brian Null On BusinessInterviews.com

Happy to announce that my interview with Brian Null of BusinessInterviews.com went live today! We talked all things leadership, and discussed how leaders can use personal leadership practices to find that coveted work-life balance. If you want to see the full version from Business Interviews, please click here.

Here are a few highlights:

 

BusinessInterviews.com: Why do you believe that leaders never have to choose between success and happiness?

Dr. Jay: If you want to be truly successful, part of your success depends on being happy. The goal is to find personal success that also leads to business or financial success. For example, you may be someone who has been successful but hasn’t taken the time to enjoy the fruits of your labor. In that case, tapping into one of the practices of personal leadership I recommend, Feel Fulfillment, is a way to help you feel that what you’re doing matters, and give you the perspective you need to realign with your goals. You become more successful when you embrace that success and let yourself feel it. By doing so, connect to an internal source of vitality that leaders need in order to strive.

BusinessInterviews.com: How can leaders utilize personal leadership practices to prioritize work and life and maintain a healthy work-life balance?

Dr. Jay: The overarching goal of personal leadership is balance. The first practice, Get Clarity, is about getting the vision, seeing both the work pieces and personal pieces of your life in place. Getting the vision of what balance looks like is crucial. Then, the second practice, Find Focus, will help you to prioritize what is most important to you. The third practice, Take Action, will help sort out lower priority items from higher priority items and take a step toward success. The rest of the 10 practices of personal leadership, similarly, serve to help you follow through on that action even with even better results. I have coached leaders with these practices for years, and have found that because of the emphasis on personal structure “personal leadership” forms a more sustainable leadership model, because it is tailored to an individual’s strengths, priorities and interests.

BusinessInterviews.com: Why do you think that challenges arise with leadership development programs for women? What foundations need to be in place to set up female leaders for success?

Dr. Jay: As an executive coach working with senior leaders in Fortune 500 companies, I have seen a noticeable increase in these programs, and I’m happy to say that women are making great strides in the business world. Yet challenges arise with leadership development programs for women when they are seen as a panacea within a company. Sometimes they seem to “solve the problem,” but the culture of the company doesn’t change. So the program may be successful on a surface level, but if the structure or environment of the company doesn’t change with it, then the program has become only a temporary solution.
Strategies that have shown to be most effective in advancing women leaders are including sponsorship programs like mentors and employee networking groups, as well as including men in women’s leadership. In regards to the former, women must have opportunities to network with powerful leaders who can help them advance – not just other women or lower level leaders with good ideas but little influence. In regards to the latter, if programs to advance and retain women aren’t backed by action, particularly action that includes senior sponsors who hold leadership and management positions, then they will amount to little over time.

BusinessInterviews.com: What are some ways that leaders can redefine their professional and personal life through your personal leadership techniques, including how to track their progress?

Dr. Jay: It used to be that people drove toward one particular measure of success, like a specific business result. Instead you should track your progress via a dashboard, looking at multiple measurements at the same time, just like the dashboard of a car. It would an indication of a vehicular problem to have high RPMs but low MPH, but looking at those two numbers individually may not give you the same indication. So when it comes to tracking your results, conscious redefinition comes in: How do you track your results across both your career and your life? Look at how you define success. If you sacrifice success in one part of your life for success in the other you aren’t truly progressing.

BusinessInterviews.com: What’s a common misconception you encounter about leadership?

Dr. Jay: A common misconception is that leadership is about other people. In some ways that’s true, and of course in a business setting that’s true, whether you’re a thought leader hoping to gain a following or an executive looking to build your team. But with that said, leadership is equally about how you lead yourself. It’s not enough to be able to lead others at the sacrifice of your life force, because that is going to be the root for which business success grows or fails.

To see the full interview, please visit BusinessInterviews.com.

Related: How to Develop Your Inner Edge: An Interview with Skip Prichard

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September 23, 2014 by sereynolds

Executive Women in Fortune 500 Companies Face Issues No One Else Does

No matter how talented you are, and no matter how high your position, it’s still a challenge for women to succeed in today’s business environment.

It’s bewildering. When someone as confident and accomplished as you seems unable to break through to the level of success you know you’ve earned, you start to ask yourself the Big Questions:

• “What should I be doing to excel in my role and show myself to be a leader?”
• “Am I really performing at my best – and is my best even good enough?”
• “Will I ever get ahead in this organization?”
• “Are women really valued in my organization? … And more importantly, am I?”

Reality starts to sink in when you start to wonder whether what you’re putting into your success is really worth what you’re getting out of it. You see other, less talented people getting promoted past you. You hear the glowing praise of your work but it never seems to be followed by the rewards. You rarely make it to the soccer games, the family dinners, or the date nights you used to love, or if you do you find yourself distracted and distant – pulled between the tug to be present and the persistent buzzing of the Blackberry in your bag. You feel heavy, weighed down. On the worst days you find it hard to breathe.

You don’t have to live this way. You can be successful in a way that works for you.

You can be a successful, overachieving, results-oriented business leader at the seniormost levels of your organization, and you can do it in a way that works for you . You can leverage your talents, stay aligned to your values, make the most of your time, and still have some of that time left over for you.

Imagine…

• You feel excited about your work again – committed, engaged, and leveraging your talents to the fullest – because you know you’re valuable and that you get the very best results.

• You finally do get the promotion you deserve.

• Your salary goes up, you earn more respect, and you feel the full power of your authority at work.

• Best of all, you get your life back. You become a mom again, a friend, a sister. You go to lunch with the girlfriends. Spend Saturday mornings with your kids. Your boundaries are clear. The guilt is gone.

• You feel focused. You feel lighter.

• You finally made it.

If it’s so easy (if it’s even possible) … Why haven’t women done this before?

There are multiple forces working against women’s ability to achieve the professional success they want along with the quality of life they deserve.

Few role models. For one thing, there are so few models of success that it’s hard for women to really see what’s possible. They can imagine it and strive for it, but they can’t see the models of truly powerful women who are successful in every way, including their work, their family and personal lives, their happiness, and their sense of peace and prosperity.

Busy lives. For another thing, women are just so busy! With husbands, partners, kids, clients, bosses, teams, homes, groceries, personal finance, fitness, and more, women often don’t have time to step back and breathe, much less to reflect on their lives and align them in a better way.

A secret lack of confidence. Surprisingly, many extraordinarily successful women harbor a secret – potentially even unconscious – lack of confidence. Compared to men, they opt in to the Big Opportunities less often and more slowly than men. They may not be sure of their ability to succeed in a bigger role and want to prove themselves first, or they’re waiting for the invitation or the nod from higher-ups to give them the signal to go for it.

Isolation. Even though women are known for their strong relationships, it’s lonely for women at the top. Even executive women they felt they could overcome the obstacles they face, in that effort they feel very alone.

A lack of information. This may surprise you, but we already know what makes women successful. We know the steps to the top of the ladder. The secrets are out. The problem is that the information is still hidden and struggling to reach real women in organizations. The good news is the solutions are out there; the bad news is no one seems to know it.

But there’s good news. You can reach the highest levels of leadership while achieving your personal goals and preserving your quality of life.
Here’s what women in highly successful leadership roles are learning about how to succeed:

• Get clear on your vision. Not just your vision for your organization or your role, but for yourself.

• Focus on the outcomes. Know what you want to achieve, with clear specificity.

• Capitalize on your strengths. Understand what it is that makes you so valuable, and learn to leverage it for a better result.

• Align to your values. Know what you love and want to protect, and put systems into place to preserve what matters most to you.

• Maximize your time. Learn to make more of every minute.

• Find your network. You will perform at your best and feel most supported when you surround yourself with the people who build you up, guide you, and give you opportunities.

• Learn the secrets. Despite the low numbers, women have made it to the top in some of the best and most admired companies of the world. They have learned how to do it, and their secrets are there to share with you.

 

Now it’s your turn!

 

If we haven’t already, let’s connect on Twitter and Facebook!

Related: Tips To Build Your Dream Team

 

Filed Under: Blog Tagged With: business leadership, joelle jay, joelle k. jay, leadership, leadership development, personal leadership, tiptuesday, women in business, women in leadership

September 14, 2014 by Joelle Jay

How to Develop Your Inner Edge: An Interview with Skip Prichard

“If you want to be your best, you need to build on what’s brilliant about you.” -Joelle Jay

Leading On the Edge

Dr. Joelle K. Jay is an expert in personal leadership.  She has coached executives in numerous companies, written several books and numerous articles, and is a principle with the Leadership Research Institute, a global leadership development firm.

Reading Dr. Jay’s new book, The Inner Edge: The 10 Practices of Personal Leadership,  I felt like I had hired a personal leadership coach.  She shares practices and principles that are enduring.  I had the opportunity to ask her a few questions to introduce her thinking to you.

 

“Better leadership equals better results – higher profits, bigger market share and a global advantage.” -Joelle Jay

 

What does it mean to lead on the edge?

“Leading on the edge” is about challenging ourselves to take the leadership position in our own lives – pushing ourselves not to sit back and hope for things to happen but getting out in front and making them happen with our own intent and effort.

 

“Most true happiness comes from one’s inner life.” -William Shirer

 

What are some of the benefits of mastering personal leadership?

I believe that everyone is a leader – if not the leader of a team or a company, at the very least the leader of his or her own life.  Strong companies have learned that better leadership equals better results – higher profits, bigger market share and a global advantage.  Personal leadership helps us get the results we want for ourselves – a more fulfilling career, a more rewarding experience, a happier life.

TheInnerEdge_CoverYour book outlines ten practices of personal leadership. Let’s discuss a few of them. The first is “get clarity.”  How do you help leaders understand who they are and where they want to go?

 I recently heard a speaker say, “Clarity is   everything.  Confusion is the enemy.”  In our  fractured and distracted world, leaders need to learn to cut through the noise to hear their own voice.  They do this by asking themselves powerful questions – chief among them, “What do I want?” When leaders can get clear about what they want, they can outline the steps to get there.

 

Tap Into Your Brilliance

I love “Tap into your brilliance” because I am often amazed at people’s strengths.  How does a leader encourage an environment where everyone is operating in the strong zone?

 

 

“Wherever you go, go with all your heart.” -Confucius

 

When leaders learn to leverage their strengths, they positively burst into action. Suddenly their efforts are infused with energy as they discover they can finally do things their way – the way that comes naturally to them and the way they do them best. That has a contagious quality, so strengths-based leaders are naturally encouraged by their own successes to help the people around them – their managers, direct reports, their teams – to organize their activities around the strengths in the group. It’s a more satisfying experience for everyone – but more than that, it’s also far more effective.

“See possibility” is another practice. One technique you call is “Let it be easy.” Would you elaborate on this practice for us?

10 Practices of Personal Leadership

  1. Get clarity.
  2. Find focus.
  3. Take action.
  4. Tap into your brilliance.
  5. Feel fulfillment.
  6. Maximize your time.
  7. Build your team.
  8. Keep learning.
  9. See possibility.
  10. All. All at once.

Especially for highly-driven achievers, goal-attainment is all about making it happen.  That can be exhausting.  Sometimes a better answer can be found by sitting back and observing, watching for patterns, being open to opportunities. The answers may simply present themselves.

To give one example, a client of mine who was toiling endlessly to try to get herself promoted worked herself into a frenzy of activity with no result.  She decided to stop pressing so hard for a while.  When she did, she was able to see a unique and exciting opportunity (that she had been ignoring) as a possibility.  Maybe this was actually an opportunity she’d enjoy.  She opened her mind to the idea, and soon she found herself being swept into a new adventure in her career that not only got her promoted but led to a renewed sense of enthusiasm.  It all happened when she stopped trying so hard and took advantage of the opportunity before her.  She let it happen.  She let it be easy.

 

 

“Good leaders are, by definition, voracious learners.” -Jack Welch

 

 

“Take the complexity out. Make it simple.” -Howard Putnam

 

Time to Re-energize

Leaders need time to reflect and re-energize.  Would you share just one technique that you have seen work for busy, overworked professionals?

The easiest – and also, sometimes, the hardest – shortcut to peace is to power down.  We power down when we literally turn off the power of our devices to distract us.  (Yes, that smart phone has an “off” button.)  We also power down when we unplug ourselves by closing our eyes for a moment and sitting in silence. Take a few minutes to close the door and rest for a moment.  Give yourself the gift of a few minutes of solitude.  Gaze out the window or walk into the yard.  Even amidst the constant din of daily life, we can find a sense of peace by shutting off all the input and reconnecting with ourselves.

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September 9, 2014 by sereynolds

Tips To Build Your Dream Team

Your dream personal support team is made up of leaders you admire who advance you, elevate you, and make it possible for you to do more/better/faster than you can do on your own.

Today I want to help you do just that. As an exercise for building your team, just follow the initials I.A.B.:

 

I: Imagine the people you most admire. Write down the names you would like to have at your  table.

A: Ask your questions. If your imaginary advisers were sitting with you now, what would you ask them? record your ideas.

B: Be with them. Let their energy and wisdom remind you of who you are and who you want to become.

 

And remember, when you build your personal support team, you are no longer the solitary leader trying to go it alone. You are collecting an entourage. Together with your team, you are a veritable force.

From myself I am copper, through You, friend, I am gold. -Rumi

 

 

For more from The Inner Edge you can purchase the book here.

Related: Tap Into Your Brilliance Now: An Excerpt From “The Inner Edge”

 

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September 5, 2014 by sereynolds

Joelle Jay and “The Inner Edge” Featured In FastCompany

I’m happy to share some exciting news with you all this Friday: today I appeared on FastCompany! In my article, Why Most Leadership Development Programs For Women Fail and How to Change That, I discuss my experience with leaders of Fortune 500 companies and the challenges that arise with leadership development programs for women. I also share a few tips that, if implemented, would make these programs more successful.

From FastCompany:

 

When it comes to leadership development, a focus on women is all the rage.

As an executive coach working with senior leaders in Fortune 500 companies, I have seen a noticeable uptick in the interest in developing female leaders. Companies are boasting about their efforts to attract and retain women, and we see more and more female-centric lists popping up: the most powerful women, spotlights on up-and-coming women, and companies where women want to work.

Employee networking groups for women have also sprung up like wildflowers, and with them came websites, blogs, and special programs, all of them heralding the efforts being made to bring more women into leadership.

With all this hoopla, surely women are making great strides in the business world. Or are they?

Behind the veneer of enthusiasm, the numbers of women in the top leadership positions at most companies remain largely the same. In America’s top companies, only 4.6% of Fortune 500 CEO positions and 16.9% of corporate board positions are currently held by women–numbers that have barely moved in a decade.

Statistically speaking, men still have the upper hand:

They represent 80% of the executive suite and corporate boards
They hold 87% of line officer positions
They hold almost 70% of management and top management positions
They are twice as likely as women to advance and nearly four times as likely to make the jump to CEO
Meanwhile, women hold about 14% of executive officer positions, 17% of board seats, and only 3% to 4% of CEO positions.”
Mentoring programs and recruitment efforts notwithstanding, the real status of women in corporate America reflects the status quo at best. With such a track record, even the most well-intentioned corporate leaders risk inviting the cynical perspective that what they really want is a way to pretty up their image–to show off their efforts with women without really making a change.

Presumably, some companies really do want to balance their leadership teams with greater diversity. Here’s how they can get started:

1. START AND END WITH THE NUMBERS
This isn’t about quotas; it’s about data.

Companies with a poor track record of advancing women have logically been hesitant to reveal the truth about their (lack of) diversity. Companies that want to take advantage of the significant benefits of a balanced leadership team need to get the facts and track their progress: How many women are actually being advanced as a result of their leadership development and recruitment efforts? How is the face of the company changing year over year?

CEOs who would never stand for stagnant profits need to stop standing for a stagnant population of their leadership roles.

2. GIVE PROGRAMS TRACTION
An online forum for women does not a balanced company make. Leadership development programs that ostensibly prepare women for leadership roles without ever putting them into those roles merely raise the self-image of the companies that offer them–not the women themselves.

In sponsorship programs, the sponsors of women must take action to open doors for women. In employee networking groups, women must have opportunities to network with powerful leaders who can help them advance–not just other women or lower level leaders with good ideas but little influence.

3. INCLUDE MEN IN WOMEN’S LEADERSHIP
Recently at a leadership development program being kicked off by a large international company, the program’s sponsor proudly welcomed the women and engaged the participants in a sincere dialogue about the company’s desire to help women succeed. A woman in the front row raised her hand and asked, “I think it’s great our company is helping women to advance themselves. What are the efforts being made to include the men who hold leadership and management positions, so that they will also help to advance women?” Many companies wouldn’t have an answer.

The effect of programs to advance and retain women that aren’t backed by action amount to little more than the revving of an engine, with the parking break firmly engaged.

Having worked with many executives from wide-ranging companies–on Wall Street and in Silicon Valley, from Times Square to the Las Vegas strip–I can say with confidence that many company leaders spearheading efforts to advance and retain women are intentional and sincere.

Results indicate that these steps will be worth the effort. Companies with more women in leadership have been shown to outperform their competition by more than a third. A strong representation of women leads to improved organizational health, global competitive advantage, responsiveness to stakeholders, and a better public image.

Perhaps instead of glorifying the efforts of companies trying to showcase their programs for women–the beauty contest approach to public relations–we should be spotlighting the companies that truly make a change.

Companies that don’t risk becoming dinosaurs in the eyes of their customers, who expect corporate leadership to step into the times. If companies don’t hold themselves accountable, the public will, as talented women choose to work elsewhere and consumers choose to work with companies that reflect a diverse and changing world. A focus on results will ensure companies’ efforts to promote women are not just a trend, but a transformation.

 

 

If we haven’t already, let’s connect on Twitter and Facebook!

Related: Tap Into Your Brilliance Now: An Excerpt From “The Inner Edge”

 

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August 26, 2014 by sereynolds

Best of the Blog: August Edition

As we move into the fall months, it’s important to maintain focus, channeling our drive and motivation to make our vision a reality. Fall is a time of change for many, so it’s the perfect time to take action and potentially shift to the right path that will help us reach our goals!

The three blog posts from the last month, highlighted below, reflect actions that can be taken to achieve just that: get clarity, use your imagination, and tap into your brilliance. When practiced in that order you can move forward with a course of action that highlights your strengths and creativity, as outlined in The Inner Edge.

Are you ready to embrace change and follow your new course of action? Let’s explore some the steps that can be taken, featured on this blog over the last month:

In Getting Clarity on Your Vision: An Interview with Patrick Byrne, CEO of Overstock.com I reveal my conversation with Patrick, and the insights he gives on how to refine your vision as we move into the last quarter of the year. Patrick is an inspiration for me, and words are something to keep close at hand if you’re having trouble narrowing your focus. When it comes to helping a vision materialize, he shared with me a powerful personal anecdote:

“But just as I have to help other people see that vision, I have to stay committed to it myself. In this role, I become the entrepreneur constantly reaching for that next horizon and driving toward it every day.

I’ve had cancer three times. Each time I recovered I took a bike ride across the states, from California to New York. As I was bicycling I used to think about the Atlantic Ocean. I’d think to myself, “As along as I’m pointed east and I’m still pedaling I have to be getting closer.”

In business, this same kind of ongoing commitment to following the right direction has to be a habit, a personal characteristic. We don’t have that same kind of concrete destination, but we do have a vision, and we have to keep moving towards it. Entrepreneurs have to overcome insurmountable obstacles. We have to keep on pushing ourselves. Once in awhile someone invents something that’s intrinsically a brilliant idea, but it really is the perspiration that makes it happen. It’s perspiration in the face of not knowing if you’re going to succeed. It’s not knowing how high the rock face is that you’re going to climb, but you’re going to keep climbing anyway.”

You can use imagination to refine your vision, and to develop creative ways to achieve it. In The Role of Imagination in Business: An Interview with Michael Gerber, founder of E-Myth Worldwide I shared a conversation I had with another CEO, Michael Geber, who founded E-Myth Worldwide. When discussing how imagination plays into leadership and business, Michael said: “The imagination, the spiritual self, has nothing to do with business, but it has everything to do with business. No one can expect to lead any venture or opportunity with any success to the degree they leave out the soul of the process. It’s the soul of the process that brings leadership to life.”

Now that you’ve isolated your vision and channeled your imagination, it’s time to understand your distinct natural attributes and be able to leverage them in the most powerful way. In Tap Into Your Brilliance Now: An Excerpt From “The Inner Edge” I give an excerpt and exercise from one of the practices in The Inner Edge. The philosophy behind the practice of tapping into your brilliance is that you are hardwired with certain characteristics that make you you – distinctly, irreplaceably, inimitably you. If you don’t know what those characteristics are, don’t worry. I also provide a quick exercise to help you “map your DNA,” or map a simple list of your strongest positive and negative attributes.

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August 22, 2014 by sereynolds

Tap Into Your Brilliance Now: An Excerpt From “The Inner Edge”

The following is an excerpt from The Inner Edge: The 10 Practices of Personal Leadership, and discusses the fourth practice – tap into your brilliance.

 

You are hardwired with certain characteristics that make you you – distinctly, irreplaceably, inimitably you. The way you live, the way you learn, and the way you lead – all of these are guided by the gifts you were given at birth and the ones you have collected in the course of your life. Knowing these attributes gives you tremendous power.

To be able to tap into your brilliance, you must answer the question “What makes you unique?” You need to discover your distinct natural attributes – your DNA. Your distinct natural attributes include personal characteristics like these:

  • Strengths
  • Weaknesses
  • Personality
  • Preferences
  • Virtues
  • Vulnerabilities
  • Style

Like your genetic DNA, your distinct natural attributes define what’s true about you. What’s genuinely true about you – the good and the bad – is also what’s great about you.

 

To tap into your brilliance, you need to understand your distinct natural attributes (your DNA) and be able to leverage them in the most powerful way.

Tapping into your brilliance involves three phases. First, you identify your distinct natural attributes. Second, you investigate those attributes so you see their full promise. Third, you learn to leverage your DNA to reach your vision and goals. Eventually, this process won’t feel like a process at all. It will be the way you look at who you are and what you can do.

THE BEST OF YOU AND THE REST OF YOU

The first step in tapping into your brilliance is to identify and map your DNA. Your DNA map is a simple list of your strongest positive and negative attributes. Your strengths and weaknesses. The best of you and the rest of you.

To map your DNA – at first, anyway – you write down characteristics you’ve discovered in yourself so you can see them at a glance. When you do this, you’ll want to include a mix of distinct natural attributes: your characteristics, behaviors, talents, learning styles, and so on. Other self-evaluation tools sometimes focus specifically on one aspect of your attributes – either your activities or your skills or your behaviors. For our purposes, that would be too narrow a view. We want to know it all. So we will take a very broad view of your attributes. Everything counts. Your talents, your activities, your character traits, the way you think, the way you behave – all of it is fair game at this stage for mapping your DNA.

You can get started identifying your DNA by using your own insight and self-awareness.

EXERCISE

Off the top of your head, write down what you believe to be a few of your positive and negative traits. This will give you a glimpse of the attributes you can leverage in the service of your vision and goals.

 

 

Related: Leading on the Edge: A Quick “How To”

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